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The child works extreme but correctional

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Provincial capital Mr Guo: My son goes up now first 2, the closest period of time, I discover his nature is more and more persistent, work more and more extreme. Argue with others when the problem, he never lets, know perfectly well him fault sometimes, still insist stubbornly on the mouth absolutely and right. At ordinary times, he sees a problem very absolutely also, one good 100 good, one bad 100 difference, in order to slant without exception complete. I feel his head never turns, do not know how to should help him really.

Expert Liu elegance and talent replies: The child because experience of life is little, intellectual range is narrow, it is easy to see a problem " see tree does not see a forest only " . The parent wants correctional child to work extreme defect, should help the child widen above all interest limits, many sided contacts the life, accumulate rich intellectual experience, master basic life knowledge and thinking method. Next, want to begin from the following respects, lead child change stage by stage:

Develop adj thinking ability of the child. Pass taletelling, make game, perhaps discuss, discuss to wait for means, engraft to the child correct thinking consciousness, make the child comprehensive, objective, agile ground look upon and analytic problem, the society sees a problem from different point of view. Still can ask the child is taken an examination of frequently at thinking of at ordinary times, whether is the point of view that often thinks oneself put forward accorded with actual, learn gradually " look before you leap " .

Exercise the child's psychokinesis. Can raise a requirement, make the child strict and normative oneself behavior, "Go when travel criterion, should stop " , raise ego to control capacity; Let the child be made from bagatelle, progressively training volition; Insist to let the child attend physical training. Training is endured in freezing intense heat of summer, can make the child is had brave, tenacious, tough, decisive wait for good volitional quality, enhance the child effectively control capacity oneself.

Teach the child to need the method that the person plays.

1, sensible. Teach the child to want to handle affairs in order to manage at ordinary times, convince people by reasoning, so that can cool-headed, overcome extreme sentiment self-consciously.

2, let a person. Adolescent is very good strong, get manage not to let a person, unjustifiable also argue 3 minutes. When teaching the child and person controversy, want calm talk, do not flaunt his superiority.

Origin: Swallow Zhao Metropolis Daily

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